If you want REAL success with women then what you need
more than anything else is a strong belief in
yourself. There is NO DOUBT that at some point you will get blown-out and not get her number but don’t let it get you down. Even the best baseball players get a hit less than half the time, and what separates the boys from the men is being able to deal with failure.
With that being said here are some tips to improve your inner game….
1. She’s not rejecting YOU!
When you get “rejected” you have to remember she rejected what you said, not who you are. If you just spent 5 minutes trying to get a phone number and she rejected you don’t get down on yourself because all she did was reject your approach! SHE DIDNT REJECT ANYTHING ABOUT YOU!
2. Don’t replay the negatives
If you get rejected or embarrassed you need to create a healthy way to “flush” the negatives. some good ideas include working out, sarging, or even discussing with your wing. But one thing is KEY, do not replay the negative emotions OVER AND OVER. The more times you allow the negative emotions to be replayed in your mind the more it will block your ability to grow.
3. Experience Rejection
I dont advocate dwelling on failures, but I STRONGLY recommend facing your fears. If you’re afraid of sleeping with a fat chick, then go hogging and sleep with a fat chick! (just kidding)
seriously though,
If you’re scared of rejection, go get rejected
If you’re scared of approaching, go approach
That’s it for today
Good luck and happy sarging,
Matrix
I’m happy to answer any questions you have
Matrix@PUAhub.com
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Unbreakable By The Social Man
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