Article by Simeon Heong
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Guys are always wondering if it’s possible to learn how to turn your friend into your girlfriend…
Of course it is!
But it doesn’t happen all that often
If you look around you will see a lot of well intentioned guys who simply get put in the friend zone because they don’t understand how to turn a friend into a girlfriend thus they give off the “cry on my shoulder and watch romantic comedy’s with me vibe”.
If you want to turn your friend into your girlfriend, you need to understand what they NEED in a man and what they need in a boyfriend even more.
I’m not telling you to give them what they WANT (most women have no clue what they want).
What they say they want and what they really need are two completely different things.
With our society becoming so feminine were lead to believe that women need a kind, gentle, caring and sensitive guy who can hold them while they cry. Unfortunately that’s not what women REALLY need!
And of course, the media will tell you that an “attractive” male is also supposed to be very wealthy, be in great shape, shower his lady with attention, As well as be completely devoted to every little thing she needs.
Well, here’s the big secret…
What women really need on a fundamental level is something completely different all together…
What women need on a core level is a man who provides SAFETY. Think of the “alpha male” archetype…
Most men relegate all the decisions to the women in the relationship and thus they relegate their own status to “BETA”
But what they are actually doing is screwing up the relationship and KILLING any attraction that was there…
To turn your friend into your girlfriend, you have to quit acting like a pussy.
Unfortanetly, many guys let their woman wear the pants in a relationship and its a very deadly cycle indeed
As soon as a friendship occurs the woman begins to get “needy” or demanding and from its all downhill. As soon as she starts running YOU then things get ugly…
Spending time with her instead of watching the soccer game…..
Talking to her about trivial things even when you have important things to attend too….
After a while the demands get more and more outrageous….
Don’t hang out with your buddies, meet my parents, go shopping with me….
Eventually you get married and the demands are much worse…. kids, house, cars, blah blah blah
The key here is setting BOUNDARIES early, so you DONT get wrangled into these situations.
(Download and watch these videos for more techniques on how to get a woman to CHANGE HER MIND and see you as a SEXUAL BEING and not “just a friend”):
