Flirting With Women – How To Flirt With Women
The art of flirting with women is just that: an art. There is no “secret formula” for flirting. It comes down to your ability to do one thing. Emotionally connect. When I say emotionally connect I’m not talking about learning her childhood details and listening to her daddy issues, I simply mean that you need to connect to the “vibe” she puts out.
When learning how to flirt with women The most important skill you can possess is that of a cocky/funny attitude. If you don’t know what cocky/funny is just check out this free video and you can get a tutorial. So lets break down exactly how cocky/funny works so that you’ll be very good at flirting with women.
#1 Cocky
Half of the equation is being cocky. I think the term isn’t completely 100% fitting. You should be more along the lines of very self-assured. If you are too COCKY then you give off the impression that you’re insecure or too “try hard” I can’t change the lingo but it’s important to note that being overly-cocky is a turn off. The main reason that you have to have both cocky and funny is that if you just come off as “cocky” then you’re not fun to be around and are either A. a prick B. insecure.
#2 Funny
Being funny and making feel women feel good is really what sets this combo on fire. In order to learn how to flirt with women it is vitally important that you have a good sense of humor. For instance, one of the best ways to really get the “vibe” going and being funny is a classic frame redirect. Start accusing her of trying to hit on you. Tell her that she just likes you for your ass. What you’re doing here is taking a common concern she may have and completely flipping the script. This not only will make her laugh but it also builds comfort and a connection. One of the biggest problems I see is guys trying to be overly funny. If you’re making jokes about yourself or going to great lengths be funny you’re going to be the “jester.” The jester is the weird guy who may make you laugh but lacks some self-confidence and masculine energy. Perfect example: Uncle Joey from Full House. Don’t act like you don’t know who im talking about…..
OK, so lets talk a little bit more about flirting with women. In all honesty, just reading this article is not going to magically teach you how to flirt women. In fact, READING anything will only get you about 20% there. Don’t get me wrong, this is a great blueprint but it can only do so much. You have to actually get out there and work at flirting with women. The majority of success you will have is through micro-calibrating what you’re doing. At first, a lot of times you try to reverse the frame will come off very weird or awkward because you don’t have the natural body language or facial expression to go with it, you’ll come off as very incongruent. But it’s OK you just have to keep working at it, and then the first time you get the joke to “hit” you’ll immediately “feel” it and you’ll be one step close to being able to do it every single time.
Good luck and happy sarging,
Matrix
**************************
Recommended Resource
**************************
David Deangelo’s free video on Cocky Funny and Intro To Attracting Women.
David D is the first guy to really teach the cocky/funny aspect of attracting and flirting with women. It’s a great resource and I highly recommend it.
(click on the video to watch)
