Confidence with women is all about being confident in yourself. Being confident around women is one of the best ways to magnetically attract women so don’t take these tips lightly. The first thing you need to do in order to be confident with women is become confident in yourself because if you try to “fake” being confident you will appear extremely in-congruent and women will see right through your act. While there may not be a “magic bullet” to obtaining confidence with women there are several great ways to build a strong inner game and cultivate real confidence with women.
Affirmations are one of the best ways to help cultivate confidence with women. An affirmation is just what it sounds like; affirming beliefs about yourself. Affirmations are an NLP tactic and they only work if you really believe what you’re saying. I don’t recommend using this technique soley to build confidence with women. I recommend using 3 techniques in conjunction to build confidence with women and I’ll cover the other two techniques later in this article. If your goal is become confident around women then I recommend telling yourself 3 times a day that you are confident with women. Simply find a quite part of your day and tell yourself that you are confident with women. Say it with authority and meaning. The whole idea behind affirmations is to make ingrain a certain belief-set within yourself so its vital that you SAY IT WITH AUTHORITY!
Another great way to build confidence with women is by stepping out of your comfort zone. This will not only build confidence with women but it will also build lasting inner confidence. Have you ever done something that you thought would be IMPOSSIBLE? Maybe you climbed Mount Everst or ran a marathon. Remember how you felt afterwards, like you could do anything in life! Stepping out of your comfort zone will give you so much confidence with women that you’ll be shocked. Besides the fact that women are attracted to confident men you will also feel better about yourself.
My last tip on how to achieve confidence with women is very simple but it is the most important tip I have so listen up. The absolute best way to build confidence with women is by actually talking to women. Revolutionary, eh? I recommend that you try to start a conversation with every random attractive woman you see. That sounds pretty stressfull right? What do I say, how do I act, how do I get her to come back to my place? Don’t worry about those things. You’re sole objective is to simply say “hi.” Your sole objective is to achieve confidence with women. So you need to incrementally build your confidence level notch by notch. If you can successfully say hello to women then you can move onto holding the conversation a little bit longer. The key is to incrementally build confidence with women.
Good luck and happy sarging,
Matrix
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