now for the good news.

I’m back, and I’m ready to help you conquer all your relationship issues!

Being the inquisitive cat that I know you are, suffice it to say that I’ve been away working on some personal issues. I traveled to some cool areas, and feel like a whole new person coming back.

I’ve had many changes lately. A new lifestyle is probably the most interesting of them. I’ve cut out about 60% of the processed foods in my diet as well as adopting a new workout regimen.

In the coming days and weeks I’d love to share some of my new knowledge with you, the best readers in the whole, entire, cyberspace. (Is the ass-kissing too much?)

anyway, in the coming days I’d like to hit on two very very important topics I haven’t discussed in depth in a while.

1. Diet – (not a diet, but rather what you eat on a daily basis) with an emphasis on paleo discussion and give you my take on the lifestyle.

2. exercise – it’s important, and not just for game.

So while these two things are not directly game related they’re incredibly important for your daily life and worth working on.

Let’s make 2012 great!

Matrix

Unfortunately, you can be very good with women without having a strong “inner game.” I know, I know, everyone and their brother preaches having a strong inner game but in all reality you can be incredibly insecure, and still attract women. Now, don’t get me wrong, being secure, and having self-confidence are more important things to have in the long run and will get you a LOT further in your life but you can still be successful with women without having your shit straight.

Why am I telling you this?

I have heard so many different excuses from guys about why they wont TRY to attract women and a LOT of the time it’s something like “I want to get my inner game straightened out first” and of course that means they need to watch 80 hours of pirated self-help videos before they’ll take action….

IF YOU WANT SUCCESS ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS TRY!

I can remember watching Mystery talk about how attracting women was like a video game. That’s still true

Once you start “cold approaching” you’ll get a feel for the 3 stages, attraction, comfort, and seduction. The key thing is that you can mask your insecurities, and all that other “shit” long enough to get laid, if that is your mission of course.

So many guys think that they have to become this super alpha dude before they’ll even talk to a girl when in reality what you need to do is just start taking action

-Matrix

With that being said here are some tips to improve your inner game….

1. She’s not rejecting YOU!

When you get “rejected” you have to remember she rejected what you said, not who you are. If you just spent 5 minutes trying to get a phone number and she rejected you don’t get down on yourself because all she did was reject your approach! SHE DIDNT REJECT ANYTHING ABOUT YOU!

2. Don’t replay the negatives

If you get rejected or embarrassed you need to create a healthy way to “flush” the negatives. some good ideas include working out, sarging, or even discussing with your wing. But one thing is KEY, do not replay the negative emotions OVER AND OVER. The more times you allow the negative emotions to be replayed in your mind the more it will block your ability to grow.

3. Experience Rejection

I dont advocate dwelling on failures, but I STRONGLY recommend facing your fears. If you’re afraid of sleeping with a fat chick, then go hogging and sleep with a fat chick! (just kidding)
seriously though,
If you’re scared of rejection, go get rejected
If you’re scared of approaching, go approach

That’s it for today

Good luck and happy sarging,
Matrix

I’m happy to answer any questions you have
Matrix@PUAhub.com

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