College girls want to party and meet a lot of new people, for the first time in their life they have complete freedom from their parents.

the overriding theme of college game is meeting women through friends.

College is undoubtedly the most social time of your life, and if you put in the necessary effort you can have more women than you have time for. (literally)

if you’re not in college and you still want to pickup college girls, you can do that too, but the game is a little bit different.

Tip#1 make as many friends as possible
This is very important, and probably THE most important tip here. It is essential that you start making friends the first day because each friend that you make is your doorway to a new group of girls, and party’s.

Tip#2 Pull her into your reality
This tip is specifically designed for those of you who want to pickup college girls but are NOT in college. As with any pickup its important that you LEAD HER and not the other way around. Its really easy to get caught up in the mindset that if shes in college you need to act like a college guy, but that is completely false.

One day I was at target and I saw this absolutely stunning blonde (early twenties) but she was with this bald-headed, overweight, 40ish year old bloke who looked like he belonged in a 1980′s porno and I thought “what in the world is she doing with him” and then I soon forgot about the couple and headed over to the mens department to get a new set of razors, well as luck would have it the couple ended up in the same department. I went to pickup a set of blades and the guy said “don’t get the cheap ones, they’ll cut the shit out of your face.”

and then it hit me!!
this old fuck has so much life experience and such a strong sense of reality that he’s like cat nip for college chicks!

so if you want to pickup college girls then you need to show her things that she cant find with college guys, pull her into YOUR environment, not the other way around.

Tip#3 Don’t be the stuckup douche
Don’t be that stuck-up guy who only talks to hot blondes. If you do this not only are you a scumbag asshole but you will also alienate a LOT of beautiful women! If you want to be a part of many social groups then you need to make friends with everyone in the group…..
If you only befriend the attractive chicks then they will know EXACTLY whats up. They will think you are gaming them, (which may or may not be true) but if you ad least spend a little bit of time getting to know the less than attractive girls in the group, then when it’s time to actually isolate the girl you want to sleep with,  her friends will be fine with it and you wont have to worry about having to win over her friends at the last minute.

important: If even one girl in the group doesn’t approve of you, chances are the girl you are targeting will NOT allow you to escalate because of her social conditioning.

Take these tips and go pickup college girls

Good luck and happy sarging,

Matrix

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On your rise to super-pimpness you’re going to figure something out VERY quickly. And that is…

*****OTHER GUYS ARE GOING TO TRY TO KEEP YOU DOWN****

You see at any given moment, everyone in any social situation has a clearcut concept of where they stand in relation to everyone else.

And the second you start making strides forward, or up, the people who have defined their own roles in relation to you are going to start basically freaking out.

Your buddies that used to be “cooler” than you are going to immediately FEEL your confidence, and get threatened by it. And their reaction will be to “tool you.”

What is tooling?

It’s basically when another guy makes you look uncool, or low status.

So the question then becomes..

Why wouldn’t they want you to do well? After all they’re your friends…aren’t they?

And that’s perfectly valid – but check it out: on a very primitive level they know that as you gain value in relation to them, you have more and more access to the girls, and they have less and less.

The spoils go to the victor as they say…and in college, it’s no different. The coolest guys get the girls. The second coolest guys get…mud.

So your first takeaway is this:

***The cooler you get, the more haters there will be***

Now this is extremely important to realize. I didn’t get this for the longest time and it really messed with me.

Because I would do all of this self improvement stuff to get better with girls and be a cooler guy and the results was that my friends would basically tear me apart verbally.

Like, even after I started getting laid – things started getting worse!

Now it’s basic psychology stuff that when we’re rewarded for a behavior we continue it, and when we’re punished we pretty much do anything we can to avoid it.

So you can imagine the wrench that this throws in your “get better with girls” plan.

As you get better, you get more and more negative feedback from your buddies.

And your brain tries to mess you up and tell you to stop your cool new behavior.

You must understand that above all, when you get cooler,
your buddies will start messing with you more. They will try to shove you back into the little box that you used to
operate out of.

And that’s cool. Because every time they try to nail you
with a jab or an insult, or whatever…

***YOU REALIZE THAT YOU ARE MAKING PROGRESS***

And this is huge, because once you realize this, the whole
meaning of what they are doing changes. You realize that the attacks are not valid. You used to view them as negative feedback, but now you realize that they are in fact the highest form of positive feedback.

Other people can feel your confidence and it’s scary. They realize that you are coming into your own and that the girls are gonna freakin’ want you.

And this is a good thing, young jedi, because this means
you’re well on your way to college domination.

Ok, that’s just the beginning, over the next couple of days we’re going to dive headfirst into how to rise to the top of the male pecking order on your camps. So that the girls start lining up outside of your bedroom for a chance to sleep with the king.

Stay tuned man and I’ll be back atcha with more pieces of the puzzle in a day or two..

peace
Mark

PS If you haven’t grabbed your copy of the Conquer Your Campus Training Manual you can pick it up NOW at www.conqueryourcampus.com

What I’m going to talk to you about in this article is something that I expand on hugely in my Conquer Your Campus Training Manual. It makes all the difference in the world, but chances are, it’s something you haven’t given much thought to.

What’s that?

Your REALITY. Your WORLD. Your LIFESTYLE.

A quick thought experiment, if you will..

If a stranger came up to your door right now and told you he was going to be living with you for the next week, what would be in store for him?

The best week of his life? The lamest? Or somewhere in between?

At the end of it, would he be begging to stay and just chill with you, or would he be clawing his way out of your place so that he could get back to his life.

Hmm.

Ok, now the bottom line is this. In college, girls are looking for a piece of your reality. They are looking for a cool guy to whisk them away. They are looking for more than just sex and status, they are looking for someone to lead them on the adventure of their lifetime.

They want to live the good life – and as a girl – the way they do it is by finding a guy who provides the lifestyle. But in college, it’s not about money, it’s all about fun. It’s all about excitement. It’s all about just having a life that’s too much fun NOT to be living.

So how do you live that life?

It’s all about passion, purpose, and self expression. It’s all about maximizing every goddamn nanosecond of the day and engineering it for MAX fun.

It’s about having your favorite songs playing at all times on full blast cus it’s jus who you are and that’s the way it is. And you fucking love it.

It’s about having lunches with big groups of friends lined up every day for the next few WEEKS.

It’s about having your sunday breakfast spot, taking everyone there and telling them how amazing the pancakes are and making sure they get the killer syrup.

It’s about being the guy who always knows what’s going on and when.

It’s about having a fashion sense that’s uniquely yours.

It’s about doing what FEELS good – because it FEELS good. And for no other reason.

It’s about taking your guys and girls out to a new club that no one in the area has been to yet, and making Wednesday nights THE night to go to this new place.

It’s about grabbing all your boys and getting a trip to hooters together for no Fucking reason

It’s about DESIGNING YOUR LIFE. Designing a life that’s so thrilling that everyone else BEGS to be a part of it. It’s about designing the type of reality, where no matter what you’re doing, you are living life to the max.

People can smell this a mile away. They know when a dude is just DIFFERENT. And they gravitate toward him.

Most guys go to college, drink some beers, play some madden, watch tv, surf the web, hope something good happens to them or that they meet someone who can fill some sort of hole in their life and provide some excitement.

But the reality is…it’s up to YOU to MAN UP AND BUILD YOUR LIFE.

When you build it – for the right reasons – THEY (the girls, the chill friends, the college experience you had hoped for) will come.

No more bitching, moaning, or hoping things will change. The change starts today. And it starts with YOU. RIGHT NOW.

You see, you could have all the game in the world, but if you don’t have a life that you’re not 150% fucking JAZZED about living, then you’re not going to get the type of girl that you KNOW you deserve.

Because think about it. If you “Get” her, she’s going to find out the type of life you’re living. This ain’t the city, where you can just date a girl and then lure her into your reality slowly but surely, hiding things about you that might be geeky or weird or just straight LAME. (think 40 year old virgin)

In college, one of the biggest factors is LIFESTYLE. Everyone is tuned into the lifestyle that everyone else is living.

It’s all out there in broad daylight.

The question is…

How do you roll??

If you’re not rolling to the max. If you’re not conciously building your masterpiece of a life, then what the hell ARE you doing?

You only get to go through college once – why not literally make it a MASTERPIECE.

Why not build a lifestyle. A reality. A world. That’s soooo engaging that girls can’t resist wanting to take a big bite out of it.

Kickass food. Kick ass friends. Adventures. Road trips. Xbox 360 tournaments. Ping pong. Beer Pong. Parties.

Look, there’s a ton of stuff that you’re going to learn to get better with women, but the fastest way to turn it all around is to build your life. Because everything flows from it. EVERYTHING.

So get jazzed about it. Get pumped. How are you going to turn it around?

Are you walking around in your boxers half the day, going to class in shitty sweatpants, then eating greasy foods, only to come home to some netporn, hotpockets, and messing around on AIM, hoping word of a good frat party comes orund?

Well than your life is Fucking Passing You By man. And no one’s going to stop and tell you until it’s too late.

You see, no one wants to tell you, because the type of live I just described is the type that 97% of the guys out there live. You want to be in the top 3%.

You want to be the type of guy who makes shit happen.

The type of guy who a girl would be fucking LUCKY to meet.

And there’s nothing fake about it, nothing phony. It’s au-naturallllll.

It’s about building the most compelling possible reality, not for the girls, but for your self. And then letting others share it.

Build yourself an MTV-cribs style place…and then let everyone just party in it, metaphorically speaking.

It’s when you ignite this passion for living life to the max. It’s when you build something this incredible, that all of the sudden, talking to chicks just ISNT THAT IMPORTANT. If you’ve always got something cooler to be doing than talking to her….than it’s going to work. You subcommunicate all the right things. But when talking to that girl is the highlight of your day, then you’re going to crash. I PROMISE THIS.

Look, I’ve been there. I’ve done that. And it’s not where you want to be.

So please, get up off your ass and start building your life out right now. What’s the first step you’re gonna take?

Do you need to clean up your room so that it’s a place where girls actually WANT to be.

Do you need to sign your ass up for a gym membership?

Do you need to start calling up those few people in your life who are just AWESOME and making sure that they are a part of your every day life?

Do you need to hop on google and start looking for some DOPE ass shit to do in your area.

Hell, do you need to just get my report or book and start getting your shit together from top to bottom?

YOU GET THE PICTURE.

So here’s what I want you to do. Get excited. Let your mind run free with cool ass shit you could do. And then, take that first step and start making it happen.

-Mark

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Long fucking day at the office and then like 3 hours on the phone afterwards but I’m back now with some stuff that you’re going to want to start implementing the next time you talk to a girl. And I’ve got some mega-hot news. (did I really just say ‘mega-hot’…oh man..I need some sleep…)

Ok, so first off, the “technique”. Now, before I share this, if you’ve already read The Truth About College Game report, you know that I’m a firm believer that the rock-solid fundamentals of game are not in the techniques, but in your mental approach to the game, as well as in the understanding of the particular social logistics that college presents.

Now, having said that, I spent 3 years figuring all this out with my mentors help, and along the way I developed tooonnnsss of little tricks, techniques and ummm “gambits” to help me along the way.

And it’s only fair that I share with you one of my personal favorites. It’s going to work for you the very first time you use it and its so easy that it’s impossible to mess up.

I call it the playful false assumption.

And it’s the technique I used during college (works like a charm in the real world btw) to stand out from every other dude around me. Basically, while the other guys are throwing out questions like they’re going out of style, you’re going to be the most fun/interesting/amusing guy because you’re going to be lacing your interactions with playful false assumptions.

Here’s how you do it:

You’re standing there talking to a girl and it pops into your head.. “I want to ask her where she’s from. Do it man. Do it. Ask her. Interview her. Go ahead. Do it. It’s just a question…ask it man…”

But then you think back to this article and a warm smile crosses your face…and you playful challenge her…

“OMG, you are TOTALLY a Jersey Girl”

She smiles and errupts “ommggggg why doooo you sayyy that?

And you begin to feel the energy building in your interaction. And more importantly, now you’re REALLY having fun. So you tease her back

“Oh come on…(massive smile)….the tiffany’s bracelet…the marc jacobs boots…” and so on and so forth.

Now, is she from jersey? Maybe. Maybe not. Maybe she’s from Idaho. But she’ll tell you. And you two will have this shared hilarious experience of you being soooo incredibly off the mark (hey…that’s my name) and you know what…you’ve accomplished you original objective – find out where she’s from – without coming off as needy, creepy, value seeking, or like the other guys, while at the same time sparking fun, positivity, playful banter, connection and a million other warm fuzzy things.

So….

Don’t ask her “So um, what sorority are you in?”, instead, say “You are totally a tri-delt.”

And be prepared to tell her why. And remember, keep it playful and fun.

Don’t ask her “What’s your major” instead say…”You are Totally a polysci major”.

And be prepared to tell her why. And Remember, keep it playful and fun.

So what are we doing here?

We are making a funny assumption, based on a little mini “cold read”, which is basically you look at her, make up a fun little reality that you can playfully explain when she asks you about it and then you just throw it out there.

And watch it stick. Time after time after time.

The key thing to note here is that you should be playful and fun. Your assumptions can be based on reality…so if she looks like a jersey girl, call her on it, play around with it and you’re right….or they can be like 180 degrees off and soooooooo out of left field that they are just flat out hilarious.

Either way, it works like magic, and is a sure fire way to take your interactions into that sort of fun, playful emotionally pumped territory that every girl craves. And, interactions that YOU actually have fun with.

So get out there, throw some Positive False Assumptions into your interactions and watch her face light up like a christmas tree.

Now for the mega-hot announcement – I got my mentor (Christian Hudson) to sit down with one of the biggest pimps at a huge party school and do an intervew with him, and its available with the Conquer Your Campus Training Manual. Seriously, its sick shit – Christian is a better interviewer than Barbara Walters and this guy (Lincoln) has probably slept with more girls than I did when I was at school.

Peace,

Mark

So awhile ago, when I was getting into this whole community, my friend/mentor Christian Hudson and I recorded a free interview (its no longer available, don’t ask). We shot the shit for awhile, and also spent a lot of time talking about how to meet freshmen (check out my book if you want more on that). Anyway, I received so many awesome emails, but there was this one email that was just sitting in my inbox, without a reply, because to be honest, I didn’t know how to.

So I figured, rather than send something nasty to the guy (which is super low status and pretty much just a weak move all around) I will use his email to as a teaching tool, and use it so that we can all share in a valuable lesson.

I want you to read this first…and then I’ll explain what’s up..and how we can all learn from this guy’s negative attitude, and use it to improve our success with girls – on campus, and in life in general…

Great, here goes:

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From: “Tom” (name has been changed to protect privacy)

Subject: the podcast SUCKED ASS

Your podcast SUCKED. I couldn’t even listen to the
whole thing because it was so BORING. You and
Christian took way too much time chit chatting about
who texted who and why, how long you’ve known each
other, what great friends you are. I don’t care about
any of that…yet. I wan’t to know what you learned.
In the future, tell your story and get to the
point(s). Be efficient. We’re busy guys with busy
lives and don’t have time to wait for the good stuff.

******

Ok. Done reading? Nice. Now let’s break down what’s going on here….

First off Tom, I want to thank you for taking the time out of your super busy day to get in touch with me. If you really are that busy, then I mean it – I appreciate that you took the time to listen to the podcast and to write not 1, but 3 emails to me.

Am I being sarcastic? Nope. Not at all. I think of all of you as my sort of friends and mentees, so there’s no ill-will here, and best of all, you gave me some solid material that I can use as a teaching piece for everyone else out there, and hopefully, something that will help you much.

There are 3 things key things about this email that we can springboard off of.

1.) NEGATIVITY

Whoooooaaa man. What’s going on here? Why are you hating? Just relax a little bit. People choose who they want to be around based on what energy they are getting. Like, a girl’s thought process is literally “Does Mark make me feel good or bad when I’m around him?…Good?…ok great, I’m going to walk over there and talk to him because it will feel good”. And you know what, this works the same with guys. Think about it in your own life, you likely move towards those people who make you feel good about yourself, and away from those who make you feel like garbage. There are 2 sides to every single situation and some people see the positive, some see the negative. This is a pretty general behavior pattern and it’s likely that if you see this in one of area of your life, it’s affecting another too. It’s a killer. So I’ll tell you this: be positive. All of you, there’s always a bright side to EVERYTHING. Trust me, I’ve been through a whole lot. There is a seed of goodness in every imaginable situation, no matter how negative. Is there a tiny seed of “good” in a free podcast between two friends talking about how to pull tail in college? I’d like to think so. And if you can’t stay positive about a gift that someone’s giving you for free, how are you likely to react when a girl shuts you down (it happens to all of us, man!). So positivity is important in terms of your own personal growth, and also in terms of those around you. So BE HAPPY man. Life is short!

Now, if I had to guess, I’d say that our main man right here was buggin’ out at me because of….

2.) A SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT

“Tom” felt that he was OWED something. And that we wern’t delivering. But it was his right, because he was born, and I was born, and because of that, I owe it to him to tell him how to get laid in college. Fair enough – I do feel responsible for helping guys out with this stuff, but geeeze….do i really OWE it to you? You didn’t pay anything for it… in fact, you didn’t even ask for it – we just released it, take it or leave it. Yes, my Conquer Your Campus Training Manual costs money, but it is SUPER-TIGHT. So come on man, you’re getting pissy about a fucking free podcast.

Look man, and this goes for all of you, when you go out to a party or when you’re walking around campus or whatever, no one owes you ANYTHING. Think about it, when you walk into that party – you might get upset because no one is acting nice to you or paying attention to you or whatever. And this might make you upset. Well, this is happening because you didnt GIVE. You see, no one “owes” you anything until you give. And even after that, they still don’t owe you, it’s just kind of the way of the world. After you give…you get back. It’s how so many things in life work, it’s all about value exchange.

Now if you really want to drill into this deeper…
You owe the world something!

You owe the world this one simple thing: VALUE. The world is freakin’ beautiful man, everything about it and it’s your duty as an inhabitant of this planet to bring love, value, joy, laughter, good vibes, and positivity to it. Every morning that you wake up, the world is giving you LIFE, so come no, at least bring something in return.

When you do this, it delivers value back to you in SPADES. When you walk around like a beggar, tipping your cup asking for spare change, the world (and especially that cute girl that you’ve been thinking about all semester) walks by you…just like you’d likely walk past a dirty beggar on the street.

Ok, one last example here. Maybe it will help you contextualize this:
You don’t wanna be the dude who shows up at the frat party scavanging for the beer…you wanna be the dude who shows up with a case of awesome imported brews to share with everyone else so that THEY can have a kick ass time.

All making sense so far?? Cool. Now, I’m dishing out a lot here, and some of it is a bit more theoretical than what we’ve been talking about before, so take your time digesting it. Maybe come back to it and reread it tomorrow to make sure it all soaks in.

Lastly, I want to talk about the third thing that might be killing your game, that’s definitely hurting this guy…

3.) NOT BEING ABLE TO JUST CHILL AND APPRECIATE A GOOD TIME FOR WHAT IT IS (AKA ATTACHMENT TO OUTCOME)

The first half of the podcast was just me and Christian kicking it and enjoying the fuck out of reminiscing about the good old days. I can tell you this – i don’t think I’ve ever laughed harder than after that little “porking” thing we talked about.

Why was it in there?

Well, I’ll be honest. I wanted you guys to feel like you had a friend. Because, the truth is, you do. I’ve been there before. Chances are, if you’ve thought it, or you’ve seen it, I have too. I also remember how tough it was to wake up every morning and feel like everyone else around me was living life, while i struggled my ass off just to make ZERO progress. So I wanted you to hear my story, as an inspiration, for something that you could draw upon as a source of strength. Because look, by the end of college I was standing atop the proverbial “mountain” and while I refuse to feel sorry for myself, it was much more fun at the top.

Now, that was just a tangent, the real point of this 3rd factor is this: When you’re chilling you need to just…chill. Christian and I were just kicking it old school on his couch in his loft. Nothing more, nothing less. And most of your college experience will mirror this. We didn’t have any super logical-specific outcome. We just wanted to have fun.

If everyone around you is just chilling and having fun, and you are internally bitching about needing to get laid and trying to maneuver your way to getting laid, people will sense it, and you will get a bad outcome. Not to mention, you will never take the time to truly enjoy college, while you still can.

Seriously, imagine you’re at a barbecue and everyone is drinking bud light and eating burgers – you know, just having a good time. And you’re going from “set” to “set” trying to get a logical reaction out of girls so that you can advance your agenda toward an f-close.

WHOOAAA dude. Do you notice a disconnect here?

Now, the fact that this won’t get good results is secondary to the fact that you are missing out on life by thinking like this. College is supposesd to be, above all else, FUN. So just relax. Chill out. Enjoy. Take a deep breath.

Feel the grass beneath your feet. The awesome energy. Enjoy the cheesy ass “Lil John” that might be playing on some dude’s ipod from the window sill of his room and just RELAX. And realize that college is short and sweet. You don’t want to miss out on it because you were trying to advance from A2 to A3 without triggering A.S.D.

Wow. That took wayyy longer to describe then I had planned on. Gotta run.

And “Tom”, if you’re reading this, please, take this stuff to heart and I promise man..you’ll get what you’re looking for. Same goes for everyone whose reading this right now – this is the stuff that I wished someone would have told me during orientation my freshman year.

And you know, speaking of things I wish someone had told me my freshman year, I’ve got a free report called The Truth About College Game and a book that is so money called the Conquer Your Campus Training Manual.

Ok, I’m Outtie

Mark

Yooooo…. ok this was an old email I sent out to some of my boys about dealing with other guys. It wasn’t part of that series of six emails from the Truth About College Game report, but its def worth seeing:

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Hey guys, one thing I want to discuss in more depth because we left it out when we talked: dealing with other dudes. I want to put down a few thoughts here, we can expand in more depth later.

In college, because of the tribe mentality we discussed, there is a constant jostling among men for superiority. Expect it. Even your boys will try to give you shit and its usually unintentional, but you might as well know how to deal. Like, my buddy Ken and I were out the other night and he kept doing this thing where he’d lean on my shoulder while I was talking to girls. He gets more pussy than most guys I know but he was just trying to show me he could fuck with me. The first time he did it I just turned around as if I was looking for someone, then the SECOND time he did it I told the girl that she and I should go get shots. He knew what was up and I love the guy to death but once you start being a serious pimp (and I know that you guys are well on the way based on the results you’ve been getting since our call) you’re going to have to know how to deal with this.

So Christian taught me something huge about AMOG’ing. This is parlance for “alpha male other guy” aka when another guy tries to show you up. Its a fucking stupid expression but whatever, it works. Christian’s not a huge guy but I’ve never seen someone better at amoging, and we were talking about what he does and what I’ve been doing and I think we broke it down better than I’ve ever seen.

Basically, if another guy is fuckign with you, you have to do one of two things:
- Break rapport if he is trying to build it
- Build rapport if he is trying to break it

And you always do this from an alpha perspective. So if the guy is trying to build rapport, you have to be “too cool for school”, like maybe you humor him a little bit, but you’re mostly just giving him shit. And if the guy is trying to break rapport, you need to build it from the perspective of being alpha nice. Some examples might help:

Let’s say you’re talking to a girl, you leave her for a minute, and then you come back and there’s some dude there. As you get back into the conversation, he tries to edge you out. He’s breaking rapport. So you need to be the bigger man, ask him his name, compliment him a bit about something (DON’T ask him questions except for his name), then as he keeps trying to break rapport, you’re trying to build rapport with him AND with the girl from the perspective of being the fun, super-social guy. It will make this guy look like he is just out for pussy and not to have fun. You can even call him on it if you want.

On the other hand, I’ve had it when guys try to break into my interactions and they’re trying to build rapport. Like, they’ll be asking a lot of questions, but they do it from this perspective of humoring me. So in those situations, you need to break rapport and be a bit of a dick. So what I was taught to do was to mirror them, ask a quick question or give a quick complement, then immediately break rapport and be like “so, why all these questions?” Or just indicate that you’re not interested in talking to them and edge them out. Again, do this from an alpha perspective.

Make sense? I’m sure that we’ll think about this some more and come up with a better way of saying it. But yeah, hope this helps get your minds working – I want feedback.

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I ended up writing more about this topic – waaaay more – in my Conquer Your Campus Training Manual. Word word.

I continue to be BLOWN AWAY by the love that all you guys are showing. It’s incredible, really, I never could have expected something like this and I’m psyched to know that my Truth About College Game report is connecting with you.

Now, I’ve had a few guys write to me with one major question: “What can i do THIS WEEKEND to take my game to the next level?”

So I’m going to share with you what my mentor shared with me very first time we talked. The same nugget of advice that had me getting literally the best blow job of my life, with about zero effort. Now you have to be OUT for this to work – its not namby pamby online dating advice and its not going to help you pick up chicks on xbox Live.

Ok, here goes…

Tonight, your mission, should you choose to accept it, is:

DO NOT TRY TO GET LAID

“Wait what?? This guy is telling me not to get laid? How Am I supposed to…ermmm..get laid?”

That was my reaction when I first heard it too.

Look, you’ve been trying to get laid every other night for the past God knows how long. And how’s it working out for you?

So tonight, change your strategy, put your faith in me just once and try it out.

Your only focus tonight will be HAVING FUN.

I’m serious.

In your head you won’t be breaking down interactions, trying to figure out what phase you are in, what to say next, or if she likes you. Instead the only thing you will be “thinking” is:

MMM FUN. MORE FUN. HOW CAN I HAVE MORE FUN. LETS KICK UP THE FUN. MMM THIS FEELS GOOD. FUN.

mmm… fun.

So let’s review:

1.) Remove the “must get laid. must get laid. must get laid. must get better. must get this handled” thought loop from your mind.

2.) Replace it with “fun. fun. fun. pleasure. amusement. that’s funny. fun. haha. fun”

and

3.) If you find yourself in your old thought loop of “must get laid. must get better. does she like me? is this working?” you need to snap out of it. How? You ask yourself this question: “How can I have the maximum fun possible right now? How can I make the most people smile? What can I do, right this instant, that will make me FEEL FUCKING INCREDIBLE.”

Look man, that’s all I want you doing tonight. I’m seriously going to be pissed at you if you try to pull a girl. If you try to hook up tonight, you’ve lost. So don’t even try. I’m serious here.

Well actually there’s one rule. If she starts leading you to sex, you can do it. But that’s it.

Just try this out tonight.

So lets finish this up…

Tonight, your only benchmark of success is this:

“I HAD AN AMAZING NIGHT IF I HAD FUN”

I want to hear if this connects with you. Seriously, I read all my email and I try to respond to every single one. I identify 100% with what you guys are telling me. You can find my email address in both my free Truth About College Game report, as well as in my badass Conquer Your Campus Training Manual.

Today, I want to write about something that a LOT of people asked for more detail about – how to turn a friend into a fuck buddy. I talk about it in my report but I guess I didn’t go into enough depth so here we go…

First let’s talk about why you’re in the friend category. You’re there because she wasn’t attracted to you, probably because you weren’t direct enough. If you read the report, you know how I feel about being direct with college girls because generally, they want to hook up.

And, BEFORE I GO ANY FURTHER, let me say that what I’ve taught my boys is more about being direct and NOT getting into this situation into the first place.

But now that you’re in the friend category, you can’t just “change” overnight. She already has an impression of you and impressions like that are hard to shift. So what I’m going to suggest here is a two to three week strategy, but you can start implementing it tonight.

So you have to get out of that category, right? Well, she’s not going to believe that there’s any substance behind your actions if you just start acting differently one day. So you need to come up with a reason that you’re going to change, and communicate it to her. I’m talking big stuff in your life – you fail a class, you talk to God for the first time, you meet an new mentor… something BIG that is going to be a catalyst for your actions.

You tell her about this experience. Don’t go into depth on it or offer too many details, that is try-hard. You have nothing to prove to anyone – it is a personal experience and it has caused you to start thinking differently. So you retreat from her for three to four days.

When you start hanging out again, something about your lifestyle should be different. Adopt a new behavior that demonstrates that you are serious about this. For example, you can do something healthy like being a vegetarian or not drinking for a week. You are in YOUR OWN REALITY where YOU MAKE UP THE RULES.

Ok, so you have set the stage. This is the proverbial cleansing of the pallate – the sniff of coffee beans between wine tastings, the parsley between the appetizer and the main course. When you start acting differently towards her, there will be precedent.

NOW, three things that one of my mentors taught me.

1. Be desireless
2. Be awesome
3. Flirt

Be desireless: You should not communicate that you want her or need her. Your life is not better because of her, it is better because of you. You’re having a good time, you’re on the right path, and you love yourself. DO NOT give in to the urge to tell her how happy she makes you or anything. You can show her appreciation, but it should be from the perspective of “wow, good for you, I’m proud of you for being that way” instead of “wow, you’re so incredible and I want to marry you.”

Be awesome: Be absolutely great to everyone in your life. Show her that you are treating everyone with the same accord that you’re giving her. Call your Mom, Dad or Grandpa and tell them you love them. She should see that you are a GREAT guy. She should SEE it, not HEAR it from you. So call up Grandpa when you’re with her and let her see how awesome you are. Now I know this may seem like pussy behavior but think about it – if you’re a badass, desireless guy AND you are gret to everyone around you, well that my friend is to me a Leader of Men.

Flirt: This is kind of what I covered in my report. And there is no contradiction here. You can be desireless but still flirty. Think about how you’d react if a fatass 45 year old woman was flirting with you. You’d flirt back, because there’s no sexual interest on your part AND its obvious she thinks you’re cute so there’s no risk of being “rejected”. So pretend that your friend is a fatass 45 year old. Tease her. Tell her she looks “soooooo hot.” When she flirts back tell her that you’re going to call the campus police on her.

And for heaven’s sake, kino like crazy. BUT… it should be playful kino, not sexual kino. Playful kino is a knee slap, a light shoulder punch, and playing “this little piggy” with her fingers or doing the “got your nose” game because she’s cute. Sexual kino is having your hand on her back and extended touching and rubbing.

(this is more sexual kino)

If you do this right over the course of a few weeks, she is going to have a huge shift in her perception of you, and her attraction to you is going to get a “reset.” In fact, you will hae probably created a “chase” dynamic where she’s pursuing you somewhat, and from there you can basically be out at a party or a social event and just start making out with her.

We could get more detailed about closing logistics, let me know if you are unclear on that last part. It is fairly straightforward though – girl likes you, you tell her “let’s make out”, you make out. That’s college game. Escalate, sex, smack on the ass for being a bad girl, call her the next day, don’t call her for another two days, see her out at a party and hook up again, and that’s that.

I’ve got some field reports that go into more depth on this, and explain it explicitly. They ended up in my Conquer Your Campus Training Manual.

FINALLY: if you haven’t already, you gotta check out the series of emails I’ve compiled into a report called The Truth About College Game. Within 24 hours of launching my original blog, literally thousands of people had read it and I received 150-some emails, so I guess it struck a chord. Ca-ray-zy.

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