By Dean Cortez

Creator of “Secrets Of Strip Club Seduction”

Strip clubs are one my favorite places to pick up women. Consider the logistics: you’re surrounded by gorgeous, scantily clad women. The alcohol is flowing, every element of the environment is designed for seduction — from the music, to the lighting — and every one of these hotties is eager to talk to YOU.

Of course, most guys who set foot inside strip clubs are content to be customers, forking over their cash for pointless lap dances and superficial conversations with women who view them as human ATM machines.

The pickup artist, however, views strip clubs as target-rich environments filled with sexy, available women. These are also great places to hone your skills and become comfortable flirting with 9′s and 10′s in “regular” settings.

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Now, are strippers simply trying to separate you from the contents of your wallet? Of course they are-at first. It’s their job. But you can use tactics to flip the script, cause them to stop perceiving you as a customer, and make them play YOUR game instead of playing theirs.

Put the right tactics to work, and you can build connections, collect phone numbers, and set up dates that lead to sex — just as you would at a bar. Strippers aren’t the unattainable, unaffordable goddesses that most guys assume they are. They’re just women. It all comes down to knowing how to break through their fa�ade, connect with them on a real level, and get them to feel genuine curiosity and attraction.

Here are ten of my tips for strip club success:

1. Go in with the right mindset: when you’ve got game, you know you’re way more interesting and confident than 99% of the customers who come to this place. Strippers spend most of their shift having tedious conversations with lame, predictable men. Once you’ve demonstrated otherwise, she’ll be pleasantly surprised to meet you.

2. When you enter the club, walk around with your head held high, like you are totally familiar with this environment. Never lurk or mill around as if you’re unsure of where to sit. Find a seat and settle in, preferably near a speaker. (I’ll explain why in a moment.) Do not sit on “pervert row” (this is what the girls call the seats in front of the stage.)

3. When a stripper you like approaches you, don’t let her sit on your lap. Make her sit beside you. (“Whoa, easy there! Have a seat next to me until we get to know each other a little better.”) Having a cocky, playful attitude goes a long way in the strip club. It conveys confidence and establishes that you understand her “game”-and aren’t going to follow her script.

Also, don’t agree if she immediately offers a dance. Pretend like you didn’t hear her correctly-act like you think she asked YOU to dance for HER.

Say something like, “Are you sure you can afford me? I charge $100 for three songs, and no touching below the belt.”

Get her to sit down next to you, and ask her name. She’ll tell you her “dancer name.” (Mercedes, Porsche, Destiny, etc.) To this, give another playful response: “My dancer name is Hercules. I dance on Tuesdays and Thursdays at the club down the road. But I’ll tell you what�if you tell me your real name, I’ll tell you mine. Just promise me you won’t stalk me or do anything weird.”

Say this playfully, and you’ll get her to laugh and tell her your real name. Now you’re starting the interaction on a genuine level, and you’re breaking her out of her “work” mind frame. Strippers, like salesmen, have a canned “script” that they use on every customer; when you control the interaction instead of answering her questions, she is unable to use her script and has no choice but to be real with you.

Preferably you’ll be sitting with her near a speaker (I suggested you choose this area to sit in), because now you can say “let’s move somewhere quieter, I want to be able to hear you.” This shows you value what she has to say, and gives it the feel like a “mini date”: you’re taking her somewhere, even if it’s just to the other side of the room. Physically leading a woman to another area is a great way to convey masculinity and confidence.

4. Keep your eyes off of her body and maintain eye contact. Never comment on how good she looks; if anything, call her “cute.”

“You’re cute, but I can tell there’s more to you than meets the eye. So tell me something about yourself that none of these customers would ever guess about you.” (Again, you’re framing yourself as not being a customer.)

5. Be respectful of her profession. Never refer to it as “stripping”; the term to use for her is “dancer.” Say (or imply) that you’ve dated dancers before and demonstrate familiarity with her profession. Then I’ll say, “It’s too bad I swore off dating dancers, because I can tell you and I would get along.” (If she asks you “why you don’t date dancers,” be vague-just tell her, “It’s a long story, I’ll tell you about it sometime.” Then ask her another question that prompts her to keep thinking and sharing.

Another good line to use: “I know you must have some funny stories from working here. My friend is a dancer in Las Vegas, and she told me some hilarious stories about the customers who come in these places�”

6. Befriend the staff: bouncers, coat check, bus boys, DJs, managers, the owner, etc. When you visit, staff members should know and greet you. This gives you high social value (or “social proof”) in the eyes of the dancers; again, you’re not a typical customer.

Befriending male staff members is easy: I’ll bring a can of Red Bull over to the doorman and say, “Here, I thought you could use this,” and give him the drink. Then tell him, “you must be the envy of all your friends-hanging out in a club full of beautiful, half-naked women every night and getting paid for it. By the way, my name’s Dean.”

Nine times out of ten, the doorman will proceed to tell you why working at a strip club is anything but exciting and glamorous. Have a few laughs with him; chat for a few minutes, then head back to your seat. He knows you now, and he’ll appreciate the gesture. Every time you return from now on, he’ll give you a warm welcome.

Befriending the manager or owner will give you even greater social proof. To do this, I’ll ask my waitress to point out the person who is running the place. Then I’ll walk up to the manager/owner, introduce myself, and tell them this is one of my favorite clubs. Then, I’ll say that I’m trying to find a good location for my buddy’s upcoming bachelor party and I think this place would be perfect. I’ll ask how much it would cost to reserve a VIP room and several dancers for a few hours.

(I never actually come back for any bachelor party; I just use this as an “ice breaker” to get to know the manager/owner. They’re happy to talk to me about this. When I return in the future, if they ever ask me about the bachelor party plans, I say with a smile, “well actually, it looks like we’ll be throwing him a divorce party pretty soon. Do you do those, too?”

7. Don’t forget, the girls are there to make money. Go on slow nights when there aren’t a lot of customers vying for their attention. When you sit down with a girl and you’ve been chatting for a little while, it’s okay to buy a dance from her-but a minute or two into the song, tell her she can sit back down, and resume the conversation. (Again, always behave like a non-customer.)

8. During the conversation, apply the same tactics you would use on women in a bar. Use techniques like Cold Reads and Hypotheticals. Many examples of these are explained in the “Secrets Of Strip Club Seduction” book. At all times, you will control the direction of the conversation and keep taking it to a deeper level, instead of trying to fill the time with pointless small talk.

9. One of the most effective ways to bond with a stripper is to get her to reveal her hidden talent and or/ambition. They’ve all got one. Strippers are used to customers treating them like brainless sex objects, and deeply appreciate it when a guy recognizes them for being more than that. This conversational thread also gives you the opportunity to reveal YOUR talent/ambition to her. (To women, a guy with passion and ambition is often MORE attractive than the guy who already has a lot of money.)

10. As far as “closing” with the dancer you like, the “Secrets Of Strip Club Seduction” program contains some very clever (and effective) methods for scoring her phone number and getting her to agree to meet you after her shift ends. (Special tactics are necessary here, because strippers normally have a tendency to be flakes.)

Meeting up with that same night needs to be your primary goal. This is why an essential part of seducing strippers is knowing two or three “go-to” spots that are within easy driving distance of the club, where you can meet and chill with her when she gets off work.

Always “oversell” these places to her. Instead of asking her to meet you at a bar (which sounds boring and ordinary), tell her that the bar has “the most amazing appetizers” or “the most incredible jukebox” or that “your buddy Mike the bartender makes the best margaritas you’ve ever tasted.” This provides additional motivation and frames you as a guy who is “in the know” and is going to turn her onto something cool.

These are just a few quick tips. The “Secrets Of Strip Club Seduction” program is packed with techniques for forming fast connections with dancers and getting results. The program includes not only a book (written by some of the top pickup artists in the game), but also some incredible bonus products and even a video interview with a former strip club manager who ran some of the hottest spots in Las Vegas. He “pulls back the curtain” and reveals his personal insights on how to score with the strippers that most guys will only ever fantasize about.

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By Dean Cortez, creator of the Mack Tactics Dating System

In my best-selling book Mack Tactics, I stress that ORIGINALITY is the most important quality when you want to meet girls — from the way you dress, to how you approach and engage them in conversation.

On the other hand, when you behave in a predictable way and fail to make a unique impression, she’s going to automatically lump you in with the last 37 chumps who tried to talk to her. At a bar, this usually within three minutes of buying her a drink, she excuses herself to “go find her friend.”

(Don’t you hate when women say that? As if her friend is lost in the bar somewhere, in desperate need of food and water…)

Anyway, the key to building a bond with her is to engage her attention and get her to share information about herself. Then you’ll tell her how much you relate, mention some of your own interests/passions/etc., and establish rapport with her.

Mack Tactics has taught thousands of guys how to succeed with women on a new level, and one of my favorite chapters in the book is called “Conversation Control.” In this chapter, I explain a number of extremely effective ways to “turbo charge” your conversations with women, and one of the best techniques is the Cold Read.

This technique was pioneered by psychics and palm readers. It’s a way to make the other person feel like you understand them, and what they’re going through, without them telling you. In effect, you are “reading them” without any prior knowledge.

The trick with Cold Reads is that the “observations” you’re making apply to virtually anyone. But there are psychological reasons why they work so effectively. First, human beings are self-centered, and we generally accept claims about ourselves that reflect how we WISH to be.

(Say to a person, “I can tell you’re a giving, generous person, and your friends admire this about you,” and of course they want to agree with you! Even if it’s not exactly true.)

Also, people are vain. We want to be seen as unique. Even though Cold Reads are usually vague generalizations — which would apply to your sister, just as they would to some hottie you meet at a nightclub — we want to agree with the person who skillfully “reads” us, and we’ll believe they have unusual powers of perception.

So forget about asking women the generic “job interview” questions. (“So what’s your name,” “where are you from,” etc.) Get ORIGINAL with your conversation game in order to engage her attention and impress her as a thoughtful, perceptive person.

If I’m in a club, talking to some babe who’s acting a bit hard to get, I’ll use a Cold Read:

“Y’know, Andrea, I get the sense that a lot of guys get the wrong idea when they first meet you. They think you’re stand-offish and a bit cold. But you’re actually a lot more sensitive, and funny, than people realize.”

Another example: “I get the sense it takes you a while to trust people, because you’ve been hurt before by someone who was really close to you. But the people that do earn your trust, you’re always there for them.”

Or, “I can tell that you’re someone who usually plays it safe and doesn’t take chances, but sometimes you’ve regretted it because you missed out on an opportunity. But then other times, you’re spontaneous and adventurous, and you DO take chances…and that’s when you’ve had some of the best times of your life.”

If she agrees with my “read” (and honestly, I’ve never had a woman totally disagree), I’ll follow up by telling her that I can relate, because I’m the same way. This builds a bond between me and her. In order to solidify the bond, I’ll tell a quick story — one that illustrates how I’m the same type of person.

(If you’ve got five Cold Reads ready to use, you should also have five short stories to illustrate how you embody those same qualities.)

Here’s another great one: “I can tell something has been weighing on your mind. You’re on the verge of making an important decision in your life, aren’t you.”

Pretty much all of us, at any given time, are contemplating a big decision (or one that is big to us, at least). Regardless, she’ll be surprised and impressed that you knew that about her. She’ll volunteer more information about herself — and now you’re engaged in a deep, compelling conversation instead of trying to fill awkward silences.

Much of what a cold reader does is simply repeating back what the subject has said. If she affirms that she’s on the verge of making a big decision, you should nod wisely and say, “Yes, that’s right, and you’re really having a hard time with it.”

Act as if you already KNEW what she was going to say! (Palm readers and psychics always do this.)

Some other Cold Reads that are vague yet seem “profound”:

“I can tell you have a strong need for others to like and admire you, but you also have a tendency to be critical of yourself.”

“You’ve got a hidden talent, or a passion, that most people don’t know about, and you want to pursue it — but something is holding you back.”

“At times, you’re really social and outgoing. But other times, you’re reserved and introverted.”

Once you add Cold Reads to your conversations with women, you’ll get a feel for which ones work best. This is just one example of an original, thought-provoking conversational tactic. The Mack Tactics program (which bundles together both of our best-selling books, along with audio courses, videos, and numerous bonuses), contains over 101 tactics and techniques for taking your game to a new level.

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How To Develop The Right MINDSET To Attract Hot Women

by Dean Cortez

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If you’re ready to start meeting more fun, sexy, high-quality women, and want to know how to flirt with them effectively in any situation, first I want to ask you one very important question:

When it comes to women, do you believe in ABUNDANCE, or do you believe in SCARCITY?

This is the key factor that separates “bulletproof players” — who get more women than they can handle — from average, frustrated guys who COMPLAIN about how they women they meet are “stuck up” or “impossible to figure out.”

Guys who have a scarcity mentality believe that the single, attractive women in their area are in very short supply.

Therefore, these guys feel they need to chase women, try to impress them, and spend money on “courting” them. Once they’re into a girl, they’ll say and do anything it takes to “win” them!

And if the girl rejects this guy, he feels frustrated and depressed, because he worries that he won’t get another chance anytime soon. He tells himself that he “blew it”…

Then, there are the guys who believe in ABUNDANCE.

These guys know that the universe has provided us with an endless supply of fun, sexy, single women.

They know that where they live, and the places where they hang out, contain any number of great options for having fun and meeting girls. They understand that their options are limitless. (And when you’ve got strong game, they truly are.)

For the “abundance attitude” guy, he knows there are literally an ENDLESS number of women who want to be with him! If he comes across a girl who has a lousy attitude, or is already “taken,” it doesn’t faze him. He simply moves onto another girl who is more deserving of his time and attention.

Having an abundance mentality means there is no reason to worry, or stress out, about finding a girlfriend RIGHT NOW. And it means never getting “hung up” on one girl, and obsessing over her, when she clearly isn’t right for you — or, for whatever reason, not interested in a sexual relationship.

The irony of having the abundance mentality is it means YOU become scarce to women. Guys like YOU are not in abundant supply!

Most women (including the hot ones) have an incredibly scarce mentality when it comes to men. They say, “all the good men are already married, or gay, or they’re ‘players’ who only want sex.”

Well, it’s time for you to blow their minds

But first, you’ve got to make women feel that YOU are a scarce resource.

You can be into a girl…but don’t let her know it. You’ve got to play “hard to get.”

In other words, she should feel lucky to meet a guy like you — a guy who is charming, funny, interesting, and cool — but who doesn’t play the dating game by the traditional “rules.”

Being a scarce resource to women means:

* You don’t give a woman all of your time and attention.

* You don’t lavish gifts on her, or spend more than $30 on a date. In fact, you STOP dating women in the conventional way. Don’t take girls to “dinner and a movie.” Bring them to your special “date spots,” which are interesting, off-the-radar places that they wouldn’t normally know about. This could be a really cool, comfortable little coffee shop, or a new cocktail lounge that has a great vibe and a friendly bartender who you’re buddies with.

(Bring women into YOUR world and broaden THEIR horizons. Women love a man who can show them new experiences.)

* It also means you’re not available to talk to her on the phone or chat on the internet for an hour every day, or see her any night of the week that she’s free to see you.

Once you start getting to know women and getting them attracted to you, and then limiting your availability, so they don’t always have access to you, you’ll be amazed by how much harder these girls are going compete for your attention and your affection.

This is what the girls want. They crave a guy who isn’t easy to figure out. Who is a CHALLENGE.

There’s a phrase that salesmen and marketers use, which is called “perceived value.” This means is if you create the perception that your product is scarce and in short supply — whether it’s true or not — people are going to want it that much more.

I’ll give you an example. A while back, I was interested in attending a seminar on how to make money in real estate. I live in Las Vegas, and there are lots of seminars like this coming to town. I went on the internet, and found out about two.

The website for seminar #1 said the ticket cost was $999, and there were only two seats left.

The website for seminar #2 was only charging $179, and mentioned nothing about availability� it just asked you to sign up and reserve your seat.

Obviously, I was far more curious about the $999 seminar. There were only two seats left (at least, that’s what they were saying) — so in my primal animal brain, that seminar immediately had much greater value.

I figured that spending more money on an elite seminar would get me better results than spending a lot less money on a seminar that didn’t seem to be in demand.

You see examples of this sales tactic all the time. And it works, because scarcity creates perceived value.

With women, you want to be the “scarce and valuable guy.” The busier you appear to be, and the richer your social life seems, the more value women will place on you.

If she calls you on the phone to chat, and you tell her you can only talk for a minute because you’re heading out the door to a birthday party for your friend Jennifer, she’ll know that you’ve got other options. You know other women. You don’t need to be dating anyone right now.

And guess what. The girl on the phone? Her jealous, competitive instincts are now kicking in. You are a guy she wants to win because she sees you as a scarce, valuable resource. She’s not the only girl trying to spend time with you!

Maybe the ultimate example of what I’m talking about is the diamond industry. It’s a multi-billion industry built entirely on an illusion of perceived value.

How “valuable” is a diamond, really? They’re tiny crystals of carbon, that’s all! Sure, they’re shiny and pretty, but no one ever needed a diamond until the people controlling the industry teamed up with the world’s top advertising agency… and managed to convince us all that diamonds are the ultimate symbol of eternal romance. (“Diamonds are forever…” “Diamonds are a girl’s best friend…” etc.)

If you loved a woman and wanted to marry her, now you had to shell out thousands of dollars for a diamond ring. She expected nothing less!

At the same time, the mining and production of diamonds is tightly regulated and controlled… so that demand will always far exceed supply.

The diamond cartels that control the industry in South Africa continue to pay millions of dollars to advertising agencies which force-feed women the notion that diamonds are incredibly rare, special, and romantic.

(Of course, once diamonds became this ultimate “status symbol,” all the rappers and pro athletes jumped on the bandwagon as well… which also encourages all the wanna-be’s to spend absurd amounts of money on diamond chains and earrings, since it means they’re “somebody.”)

Think about it. Perceived value. Do women view you as a diamond, or are you just one of a million ordinary stones they’d find on any beach?

Are you with me?

Good…

I want you to STOP being the average guy who takes the “scarcity” attitude…

The guy who meets a girl, and things seem to go well, but then she starts acting cold towards him… distant… NOT returning phone calls and emails… and so he starts to freak out and get depressed…

He’s desperate to get the girl back, to lock her down and make her his girlfriend… and what happens in these situations — nine out of ten times — is she runs in the other direction!

Why? Because once a guy has telegraphed his interest… and she perceives that he’s just another average, single guy who’s got no other options… and nothing much else going on in his life… she knows he has no value.

Instead of this, you need to be the PRIZE that women seek to CAPTURE.

You charm them, make them feel attraction, and then you make them work to earn your time and attention.

When you’re talking to girls, you “tease” them instead of agreeing with everything they say.

When they want to see you, you’re NOT always available.

And when you ARE with that girl, you impress her as a unique, original guy who could be with a million different women right now… but you’re giving her a chance to measure up to your standards.

And you’re not going to make it easy on ‘em

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Remember, there are truly an ENDLESS NUMBER of attractive single women out there, who are waiting to meet you…if you understand the right way to approach her, talk to her, and push her “attraction buttons.”

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Dean Cortez