Body Language Flirting
A lot of guys ask me what exactly body language flirting is. Body Language flirting is basically using non-verbal communications to create “chemistry” AKA flirting. Most men don’t understand how important their body language is to their overall success with women. Body language and non-verbal communication accounts for over 90% of our total communication! That means the impression you give women primarily depends upon your body language. Body language flirting can create INSTANT attraction in women if you understand exactly how to communicate your a high value person by using advanced body language secrets I’m going to teach you so pay close attention.
Body Language Flirting Tip #1
Body Rocking
One core conept of creating attraction through body language is the use of body rocking. When you meet a woman for the first time you need to present yourself as a high value male. You can do this via body rocking. Body rocking is simply using your body language to move closer or move outward when you’re in a conversation. When you slightly turn your body AWAY from her you are communicating DISINTEREST in her and she will WANT to regain your attention. The key is being subtle, too much movement and she understands that you have a motive, but if your slight body turn is very subtle she will believe that you are naturally disinterested in her (beautiful women CRAVE what they can’t have) and so begins the chase. She now WANTS your attention and wants YOU to like her.
Body Language Flirting Tip #2
Kino-Escelation
Women LOVE to be touched. Touching early on in an interaction with women really sets the stage for body language flirting later on. It has been scientifically proven that skin to skin contact releases hormones which makes people closer to one another. The key to proper proper physical escelation is based on how well you can use your body language. The easiest way to set the tone for being physical is by working you way up the escalation ladder (credit Vin Dicarlo for inventing the escelation ladder).
Basically you need to start with something small within the first 2 minutes, something like a high 5. As soon as she says something cool, give her a high 5 and say “you’re so awesome, you’re the little sister I never had” (were establishing playfulness, as well as physical touching early on). A high 5 doesn’t sound like much BUT it sets the stage and makes it EASIER to transition to heavier touching. Imagine how weird it would be if you had never touched her yet you wanted to kiss her? Small steps grasshopper…..
Body Language Flirting Tip #3
Posture
Posture is something you should constantly be working on if you want to become good at body language flirting. Different scenarios call for different postures but I’ll go through a couple of the most common scenarios. As a general rule, you should always be “comfortable” and never let your anxiety or nerves reflect your body language.
When you’re sitting:
You should take up a fair amount of space and be relaxed. This conveys your self-confident and assured. Don’t cramp up and be really “small” with your body language. The general rule is this: the more open your body language is and the more space your occupy the better. Think of yourself in a “power position so to speak.” Portray yourself as the man among boys.
When you’re standing:
Stand with the shoulders at the part, and legs slightly wider than your hips. This stance portrays you as the alpha male and opens the door to body language flirting. Another body language flirting technique that you can use is the “figure-8” (credit Mystery for inventing this). The figure 8 is a loop process (kind of like body-rocking) where you can either give the girl an indicator of interest or an indicator of disinterest depending upon your body language. In a club environment (or any other loud environment) you have the freedom to move around slightly and when your talking to a girl you can either move in or move out depending upon whether you want to show interest or disinterest.
It’s a difficult concept to explain on paper but I’ve attached a video to help you understand it.
Now that you understand body language flirting I hope that is you will implement this info and go get laid tonight!
Good luck and happy sarging,
Matrix
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