Face it fellas, sometimes it’s just easier during the day. Yes, the nightlife may contain more “target-rich” environments and you may just strike gold but if you’re new and you really want to work on conversational game then i highly recommend that you start with day game.

Why though?

Day game is more about striking up and having great conversations whereas everyone and their dog is out to get laid at clubs. Now, there’s nothing wrong with going out and having a great time at night but you will have much less pressure on you during the day and you will build skills that not only translate into more dates but being a better overall conversationalist. Also, there is no need to telegraph your interests during the day. For all she knows you’re just a nice bloke striking up a great conversation.

So why does that matter, wouldn’t it be better if she knows i’m a raging manly man of men?

Yeah at times that could serve you better. Especially if you’re going after a one-nighter. Taking the under-the-radar approach of day game ALSO has some strong benefits namely it makes it easier for her to let her guard down. In fact, you should notice that EXACT same woman will react to you completely different if you meet her in the day versus meeting her in the night. The environment shes in will dictate how she reacts to you. Don’t expect her to give off sexual signals quite like she would at night but you can also expect her to be generally friendlier and less “bitchy” ( sorry ladies ) for lack of a better term.

Let’s go through some DO’s and don’ts….

Do keep it casual. No pressure, no need to hype yourself up for mentality of go big or go home. The key is to work on becoming more and more comfortable

Don’t leave early. Again, this is more skill building than anything else. There’s no need to exit at the first sign of awkwardness (hah! Yes you might run into an awkward moment. Press forth though) you can push it and figure out where you fail and what to improve

Do have fun. Yes, i know that is obvious but its important to just let go of the stress and worry and just enjoy yourself. You’ll do better without the stress

Don’t be outcome dependent. Don’t let a number fail or weird interaction get you down. Just keep truckin and realize that you’re building a skill-set not looking for a wife (not this day, anyway)

Do keep track of shit. Create an excel spreadsheet, print it out and keep track of how things go. This will ensure you’re making progress. If you feel as though this will put too much stress on yourself forgo this part for now.

Enjoy yourself,

Matrix